I felt unfulfilled as a stay-at-home mom. Now I run a travel business from my bedroom and enjoy the best of both worlds.
This story is based on an interview with Nicola Lewis, 44, the owner of an online travel business from Essex, England. It has been edited for length and clarity.
I'd had a series of miscarriages before I finally gave birth to my son, Harry, almost seven years ago, and he was the center of my universe.
Still, after two years of staying at home with him, I felt lost and confused. I was approaching 40, had been out of the workplace for a while, and my confidence was at rock bottom.
Have you built a business from home as a parent? Please email Jane Ridley at jridley@businessinsider.com if you'd like to share your story with Business Insider.
My confidence was so low, I honestly didn't know if I had a place in the world of work.
Before I had my son, I'd been employed my whole adult life, including as a holiday rep in Spain and for wedding venues in Essex. I started off as a sales assistant and, at 26, ended up on the board as sales and marketing director.
After leaving the job to travel to Asia and Australia for 18 months, I rejoined the company and stayed for five more years. Next, I bought a bridal shop in 2017.
It was a year after I married my husband, Ross, 47, an electrician, and he supported my venture as I threw myself into running my own small business.
I'd suffered three miscarriages since our wedding. It looked as if we had to try IVF, so I sold the shop in 2019, planning to use the money to pay for treatment.
As if by a miracle, we didn't need the intervention. I got pregnant naturally with Harry. I was closely monitored throughout, and he was born safely in December, 2019.
For months beforehand, Ross and I discussed what to do next. At that time, I thought, "Forget the career, our son is our No. 1 priority, and I want to concentrate on him."
We decided to tighten our belts and live off Ross's wages. We downsized to a smaller house, stopped going to restaurants and eating takeout, and didn't go on vacations.
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- This story is based on an interview with Nicola Lewis, 44, the owner of an online travel business from Essex, England. It has been edited for length and clarity.
- I'd had a series of miscarriages before I finally gave birth to my son, Harry, almost seven years ago, and he was the center of my universe.
- Still, after two years of staying at home with him, I felt lost and confused. I was approaching 40, had been out of the workplace for a while, and my confidence was at rock bottom.
- Have you built a business from home as a parent? Please email Jane Ridley at jridley@businessinsider.com if you'd like to share your story with Business Insider.
- My confidence was so low, I honestly didn't know if I had a place in the world of work.
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